Some years ago this sub-section of Body and Soul was very popular, but is now empty and neglected.
Pity really as relationships are now siphoned into CB.
Just mentioning it.
mallyh.......oh! yes, it was very popular, it was very popular but predictable...
When asking a question about infidelity and/or love, the answers from the female ABers was "dump him and move on", the male ABers replied "get on with it" and A-H's reply was so long and complicated, that i never finished reading it.
You are suffering from "schadenfreudus interruptus" - go and polish your brogues and then pop off to the Club for a couple of snifters and a rub down with The Daily Telegraph.