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jambutty | 13:31 Wed 12th Oct 2016 | Family & Relationships
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Hello everyone who was kind enough to reply to me when I posted my despair over losing Mum in early Sept. It hasn't got any better. I have a big hole inside me that I feel will never be filled again. I have gone through all the grief stages and am getting angry now that she has left me. Stupid I know because she had no choice in the matter. You know what hurts as well - the 'phone has stopped ringing now the funeral is over and people have got over the shock of her death, but I knew that would happen. Dreading Christmas and we used to love it so much. I'm still a mess.
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Hi Schlomo, just seen your last post. Sadly, I am no better at all, guess I have to get through the first year yet. My birthday and Mother's Day are coming up without her and I know they will be very hard and sadly people aren't rallying around as they did at first, but I knew this would happen, that's life. Had a bad day today and started crying in front of a lady I barely know who I bumped into when out with my dog, when she started showing me some sympathy and gave me a huge hug, which I needed. Have to keep taking one step at a time, but it is a long haul for me. Mum and I were very close, very.
Hi Jambutty, how did you go through your b'day & Mother's Day? How lovely that lady took the time to do that with you, so many would pass by! I hope things are getting easier (i know they probably don't seem to- especially with Mother's Day shoved in your face at every turn!)
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Hi Schlomo. I got through them, thanks. A good friend came out with me on my birthday, so I wasn't sat at home thinking my thoughts. Mother's Day was bad, but at least I've got through my first one without her now. I know I will always miss her, but the pain isn't as raw as it was, only sometimes .... Thank you SO MUCH for coming back and posting to me xx
You're so very welcome. Glad things have gotten a little easier for you xx

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