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feist | 23:25 Sat 03rd Nov 2007 | Society & Culture
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Would age difference affect you, in choosing a bf or gf? I mean if its casual dating where you dont really care and its all a bit of fun, then I'm sure it wouldnt matter a bit, but if you're at that age where you're a bit more serious about what you want from a partner and life, then would say a 20 year gap affect you ? Could you ever see eye to eye on anything? What about when they're about 60 and you're 40... they tire more easily and life's only just started (after retirement) for you? Is it a big deal or am I overreacting?
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if true love prevails then an age difference - no matter how large - should not even be a consideration.

look at michael douglas & catherine, to say nothing of ordinary everyday folk who are together despite age gaps
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well said legend. am glad for you - it re-inforces what i just said
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douglas and jones are one in a million, i think. Also, douglas is all wrinkly and gross while jones is still a young woman.

Is love enough to get through such a difference? Age is not just a number in the end, it affects things you may not notice until later n life, from your outlook to biological changes you have no control over that affect your mood amongst other things. With a partner not going through what you may be (due to the age diff), you might begin to drift apart which might get worse the older you both get................
Does anyone have any mre examples of couples with huge age differences?
it looks to me like you have already decided on your view..

you are looking for the negative angles
yes I thought that too excelsior, not really a debate, more of an excuse to pick on age gap relationships
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no its called deliberating... positives i already know, and I want to look at this from all angles.
Its too easy to look at it through rose tinted glasses and think, love will solve all problems, when its you who has to deal with them at the end of the day....

well your remarks about michael douglas and catherine zeta jones were quite telling....

I agree with legs comments, I have been with a much older person and a younger person and it really does come down to individuals. the age doesnt mean squat
My hubby's 7 years younger than me feist,it makes no difference at all, as long as you love each other age should'nt be an issue:-)
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right ok... and that's why your relationship lasted so long with people who were vastly younger or older than you....

Anyway, in a situation like this, wouldnt you say you'd have to know your partner really well to decide that age didnt matter after all? If you barely know them, then the obstacle seems even more impossible to get over.... especially if you've been open and honest about yourself the whole time.
If 2 people love each other then it doesn't really matter. Age is just a number. It's other folks opinions that cause the problems.
its not the answer she wants louisa... its too positive..
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If you dont know the basic facts about the other person, like their real name and age and what they do, then it does matter, hugely, and you wonder what the other person is hiding other than their age...
LOL Cazzz. i think you may be right. I strongly believe feist is blue3wave :)
why would you have a relationship with a person you dont know...?

lol louisa, Its quite obvious isnt it :D
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exactly, so age is not the only problem here, unfortunately..
feist, why not just accept the answers you have been given, if you want crazy and shocking watch the jerry springer show, they pay actors to pretend that they are lowlife scum..

it amuses some ppl
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I dont watch such shows... people with no taste though, as on here I'm sure, must be hooked to it...

I want some answers!
well your here...

you had answers...

sorry that they were positive.......

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