mixed signals..

ciaraciara | 01:36 Wed 06th Jan 2010 | Relationships & Dating

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Im friends with this guy for 4 months and we just clicked,but he had a girlfriend.I really fancied him, and at times I felt like he liked me in a "more than just friends" way too, like he'd tell me that I sound really like his girlfriend on the phone or that my hair is the same length as his girlfriends, things like that. And he'd keep saying "I've got a girlfriend, I'd never cheat on my girlfriend" when we'd be talking, as if he was trying to remind himself of it. So anyway, in order to prevent myself getting hurt, I just convinced myself to see him as just a friend and that nothing would ever happen between us, and I actually came round to the idea and I really did just see him as a friend. Then about a month ago his girlfriend broke up with him, he seemed pretty cut up about it. But then he seemed to accept it. So I had a party and he came, I still only saw him as a friend, so I was really surprised when he kissed me. But it felt really good, and alll those feelings I had for him just came rushing back. I spent the night in his bed that night and we just had such fun and he told me that all his friends had been saying that we got on so well, why werent we together?? and that if he hadnt had a girlfriend at the start of the year he thought we would have definitely gotten together. Also he'd said that he'd felt like cheating on his girlfriend with me. The next morning he acted a little bit off, as in awkward or something.
So then we all went home for the weekend and the next time we saw eachother we got on so well, it was all back to normal, but then after that lecture he turned to me and said that he'd had a pretty hectic weekend. So I asked him what happened, at this point it was just me, him and another guy friend, and he looked at the other guy while saying "I don't know if you're going to like it" and I immediately guessed "did you get back with your girlfriend" and he said yes...WHY?