I’d have like to have gone into Travel I think,for a few years now I’ve organised holidays for family & friends, booking flights and getting accommodation etc and I’ve really enjoyed doing it, even this year with vaccine certs and locator forms which aren’t require now.
What would you like to have done or did you do it?
i seriously wish id done more sex while i had the ability/will. No-one tells you that your sex drive waxes and wanes over time and as a perimenopausal woman, sex becomes like climing a mountain - you don't want to do it, it's a right effort but you do feel pleased when you acheive the summit!
I wasn't allowed to do what I really longed to do so I can't regret that.
My regret is not very nice I'm afraid, Bobbi.
I regret forgiving my mother for what she put me through and for caring for her when she developed Alzheimer's.
p.s. In case you miss it there is a link to your birthday on Campbellking's thread. :-)
Thanks, OG....but I'd like to have told her that I found out, far too late, that things that happened to me, and puzzled me, were down to her selfish, attention seeking lies.
I regret not walking away from my mother sooner.
I regret not pushing the drs to investigate my infertility
I regret not telling my dad I love him more often
if doesn't sound as though you have forgiven her, gness, which I can well understand; outside of religion, we're under no obligation to forgive harm done to us. But as OG says, don't regret caring for her. Good or bad, it got you where you are today - a better person than your mother, and apparently leading a happy life. That's not always easy to attain.