Why do many women want to change and control men?

[KreepyKoo]

Is it because us men are doing bad things? Or is it maybe because the women have a super strong nurturing mothering instinct and this controls their actions if so then why when we have said "NO" several times we then have to stand through several weeks of constant nagging, is this a form of psychological warfare used to break us down and so they get their way? ? And before im lynched by the feminists, yes i know some men do this also but through a different channel ie..intimidation, bullying etc...
(No offence to the great poster earlier that i had a great mini debate with which spurned the birth of this question)

[4getmenot]

not just married women, girlfriends do it too, I guess its just in their nature

[ummmm]

Lol...I'm happy with my bloke the way he is. I don't nag him and he doesn't nag me...it works for us.

(although it does mean that not much gets done)

[Old_Geezer]

It's just the way folk are.
Many men seem to match up with women assuming they won't change.
Many women seem to match up with men assuming they can 'improve' them.
Both groups get disappointed.

[society]

"Why do many women want to change and control men?"

Who says they do?

[4getmenot]

My bloke does what he wants, goes out when he wants etc, I do like to cook, make his pack up etc and can nag a bit when he's left clothes on floor but I dont ever tell him what to do

[KreepyKoo]

Me and several billion males that have had enough and are making a tough stance on henpeckory society!

[ummmm]

That's not nagging 4get...that's moaning. Everyone moans...

[Count-A-Strong]

It's all that playing with dolls. Dressing them how they like, making them do what they want. This is where it leads.
Your session is over. that will be 500 pounds please.

[KreepyKoo]

Ummmm you sound like the perfect woman, 4get your almost there, listen to ummmm.

[ummmm]

It's only because we're both too lazy to nag...

[KreepyKoo]

Lol, that's true oldgeezer.
Countastrong then maybe we should give our little girls robust man dolls that do the opposite of what you want them to teach them the "Way of the alpha male"

[Backdrifter]

Why do some women walk very quickly with their arms folded tightly?

I've tried doing this, it feels unnatural and uncomfortable.

(Apologies for hijacking the question, but it seemed just as valid).

[ummmm]

In case their nipples are sticking out?

[Count-A-Strong]

backdrifter - you'll usually find they either have large breasts and are trying to control them, or, it's a bit 'nippy' outside and they're trying to hide the tic-tac smugglers affect

[Count-A-Strong]

See! I understand women.

[KreepyKoo]

Oh well ive got to dash, but a message to all males reading this, i want you to say "No" in the mirror 5 times, cross your arms and turn your back to the mirror whilst "Putting your foot down"use this at least 3 times today when nagged.
Women id like you to........Take your computers to the kitchen and start cooking lunch! ,
Bye!

[ummmm]

Just got an image of uncontrollable breasts then...

[society]

KreepyKoo they would have to be quite flexible to be able to do all that. :-)

[steg]

"It used to be so great to be a man. Women were there to please us. They'd look after the kids and we go out and have a good time. That's the natural order of things."

just say "no ma'am" : http://www.klartextsa.../al-bundy/nomam-m.gif

[carmalee]

because we know what's best for you -