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Doing the right thing?
My OH left in June saying he wanted to be single again after nearly 30 years of marriage. He said he wanted a divorce,I was in a hell of a state for weeks then sought advice from a solicitor. He advised me not to start divorce proceedings but to let the OH do it as he is the one who left and wants a divorce. Neither me or my kids (both adult) have heard from him tho' he texted them his new moby number. They have'nt texted him as they want nothing to do with him. Problem is I closure so do I start proceedings or take the advice of the solicitor? TIA.
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Aw thanks Icg.thats how I feel now. I never thought I would stop loving him I cant bear the thought of now. em10, I usually cut the grass anyway so nowt new there. We've got an 8ft high hedge that he used to cut but a neighbours son did it for me for £25! Worth it eh. Its the felt on the garage next,I want that done cheap as well.
So sorry to hear that chinadog and sadly this happens very often. I think some men start getting scared when they see pension age on the horizon and don't want to get old so change of lifestyle usually with young women does the trick, but only for a while. I've had lots of friends' husbands asking to come back. This might happen to you. As the others say, don't do anything he wants the divorce.
Hi coccinelle, He took early retirement due to depression and was coming on fine but he stopped taking the anti deps on the advice of his mother and not long after he left. He was living with his mum but I think he has his own place now. My daughter passes her grans everday on her way to work and home and his car's never there. He must have a fancy piece.