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annaneedsanswers | 15:01 Sun 03rd Jan 2021 | Family & Relationships
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Okay so my question before was: "Me and my best friend have been friends for almost 2 years. Lately I've been feeling really lonely and really wanna have a relationship. I've been thinking about one with my best friend. One time I really wanted to kiss her, but only one time. It could be because I'm maybe asexual (idk my sexuality yet). she's been recently through a break up. Ihave feelings but I don't know if it's platonic or romantic. I told her today that I had wondered if i was in love with her a long time ago.I told her that i figured out that it was platonic (i did not figure out) and her response was 'what is platonic?' i told her 'a friendship way' she didnt respond to me anymore after that. and I'm very confused and don't know what to do, help!" And now I got a respond, She said she thought she liked me aswell in the beginning, but she also figured out that it was platonic but I'm still not sure if my feelings are platonic or not. Help, please!
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There's nothing you can do. You can't make people like you in a romantic way. Just carry on being friends and see what develops.
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I'm also not sure if she is lying, like I do, I tell her I figured out it is platonic but I'm still not sure about it, I need to say it to someone and my safe space is at hers but I can't tell her this and I'm really stuck. What can I do? Should I tell her? Would that destroy our relationship? She's my only friend I have and I don't wanna lose her! Help!!

Don't say or do anything. If she wanted the relationship to go further she'll let you know.
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Update! She left me (as a bestfriend).
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I got her back lol

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