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The bank person spoke directly to my partner, saying "can he...""willhe he be able to.. - my partner was embarrassed, I know, as she has had to listen to this before and when I said what I said about it, all they could do was laugh it off with an empty apology, as if it was like some big joke and even as leaving the bank, they came across with the same inane and vacuous words. Yeah, I know it's easy to say I should have thicker skin, but when you get this discrimination day after day from all kinds of sources, it's not that easy to brush it off - I could turn ablind eye of course!...hiya Mamya, how ya doin'!