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my 15 year old daughters b/f was visiting her today he is also 15 ,i don't really trust him but have a problem he has went for his train and it has been cancelled ,i have checked this myself ,but should i let him stay here i told them hours ago when the trains were ,i really don't know what to do i don't want a 15 year old boy walking the streets in this cold but i will be awake all night worrying either way please help very urgent
Cherry
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i wish it was that simple sara ,if i could pay for it i would he stays 65 miles away so taxi isnt an option ,she met him through my niece who stays in the same place (just before anyone asks )its an hour and a half driving time but in this weather would probably be about 2 1/2 hours so by the time someone came to get him it would be 2 half 2 anyway ,then i would worry till we were told they were home safe could be about 5 am sorry for my writing i am in a panic
poodicat- completely agree, I know a couple who weren't allowed to sleep in the same room together (to be fair they were over 16) but they would just do it wherever they go the chance, in his car, in public toilets etc. If they're going to have sex it would be better to let them do it somewhere safe.
Well Cherry's obviously not happy and looking out for her daughter, regarding a young guy she doesn't trust. They may be able to misbehave elsewhere any time, but there is no need for her to aid and abet in these circumstances, especially if she thinks the situation is being manipulated by them. Give him a bed for the night, and that's all!
thank everyone ,hes on his way back everton good thinking i was going to sleep in the livingroom but stairs seem better then he would need to pass me i never thought of her in my room actually sounds even better thanks im still reading answers while writing this i am very grateful to everyone
Cherry x
Cherry x
I would do this:
First, call the boy's parents, explain the situation and ask them what they think you should do. He's under 16, so is still their responsibility. You never know till you ask, but they may actually come and pick him up, in which case, problem solved.
However, as sounds much more likely since it's now gone midnight, simply put him up in a spare bed somewhere, but not obviously (!) in your daughter's bedroom. Are you honestly saying that you are incapable of keeping them apart until morning? Surely not...
First, call the boy's parents, explain the situation and ask them what they think you should do. He's under 16, so is still their responsibility. You never know till you ask, but they may actually come and pick him up, in which case, problem solved.
However, as sounds much more likely since it's now gone midnight, simply put him up in a spare bed somewhere, but not obviously (!) in your daughter's bedroom. Are you honestly saying that you are incapable of keeping them apart until morning? Surely not...
