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How Do I Get Over A Broken Heart
I was seeing this guy for around a year, things were great. I went on holiday with my family for a week and before I went we told each other we loved each other discussed a future and kids. When I returned a week later he appeared distant and took ages to reply to my messages, it was going on for a few months. I saw him before I went on a work trip a few months ago. I left it a few days before messaging him. He did his usual thing of not replying for two days, so I'd had enough deleted and blocked him. I then re-added him on social media as I realised it was silly. But he's refused to add me back and is ignoring my messages. Eventually he replied a week later and said he's just not feeling it anymore. I'm totally heartbroken and confused it felt like it's came from nowhere, it's now been a month a we've still not spoken. I've tried to reach out but he doesn't respond. I feel so broken and stupid. I feel like I'll never get over him.
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You give it time. And you try to stop spending ages brooding over the loss. Give yourself time to grieve but not all day every day.
You find other interests to engross you. And remind yourself it has given you both valuable experience and the opportunity to find a better match. And that for all the present hurt, it was just one fun year out of a whole lifetime, and as you were happy before, so you will be again once you've accepted the situation.