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How Do I Get Over A Broken Heart

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ThatgirlMolly | 17:41 Sun 15th Jun 2025 | Family & Relationships
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I was seeing this guy for around a year, things were great. I went on holiday with my family for a week and before I went we told each other we loved each other discussed a future and kids. When I returned a week later he appeared distant and took ages to reply to my messages, it was going on for a few months. I saw him before I went on a work trip a few months ago. I left it a few days before messaging him. He did his usual thing of not replying for two days, so I'd had enough deleted and blocked him. I then re-added him on social media as I realised it was silly. But he's refused to add me back and is ignoring my messages. Eventually he replied a week later and said he's just not feeling it anymore. I'm totally heartbroken and confused it felt like it's came from nowhere, it's now been a month a we've still not spoken. I've tried to reach out but he doesn't respond. I feel so broken and stupid. I feel like I'll never get over him.

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You give it time. And you try to stop spending ages brooding over the loss. Give yourself time to grieve but not all day every day. You find other interests to engross you. And remind yourself it has given you both valuable experience and the opportunity to find a better match.  And that for all the present hurt, it was just one fun year out of a whole lifetime, and...
18:55 Sun 15th Jun 2025

It's better this happened now rather than a couple of years from now.

He might have walked away leaving you to bring up the child you had on your own.

You give it time. And you try to stop spending ages brooding over the loss. Give yourself time to grieve but not all day every day.

 

You find other interests to engross you. And remind yourself it has given you both valuable experience and the opportunity to find a better match.  And that for all the present hurt, it was just one fun year out of a whole lifetime, and as you were happy before, so you will be again once you've accepted the situation.

You will get over this. It might not seem like it right now, but in the future you will either have forgotten about him or think 'What a -----'

The heart is very resilient - may appear broken but it's only a glitch  ....  just get over him and, as the saying goes, there's plenty more fish in the sea.😊 🐟

the geezer doesn't derserve you love. That's how.

OĜ what a lovely and thoughtful reply. X

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Thank you everyone. 🥹🥹 I just don't understand why's he's done this to me 

molly you sound lovely don't let this knob head know he's hurt you. Get out there and kick april love. 

my mum always told me that the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else :)

Old Geezer got it i one.

You had a lucky escape when you meet the right person all will be forgotten stay strong.

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