Is This A Bad Thing?

[Sophia20]

I'm going on a date tonight with a guy I met online he's booked a meal and I just wondered I should if he staying at hotel so he doesn't have to worry about transport as it not great by him but he asked makes rip my clothes off but at the same he keeps calling me beautiful . Is it a bad thing? I don't know if I want to go now 

[Sophia20]

Because I felt bad cancelling. I spoke to him first few days but that was before he brought all this on. 

[smurfchops]

AbbyLee, Abbeyleigh, Sophie.  This person has a serious problem and seems to be getting worse.  Go for the meal, rip all your clothes off, stay the night in the hotel with him, never see him again.  Is that what you want to hear?  

[Sophia20]

No of course not. 

[smurfchops]

Is Sophia90 now Sophia20?  What will be next methinks??  

[smurfchops]

Well that is what will happen.  DONT GO!!!  Problem solved.  Next please.

[Sophia20]

No one. Look I've gone with what youve all said and not going. 

[Hazlinny]

It is impossible to give you advice as you just ignore it and prolong the conversation - you must know in your own mind what you want to do so do it whatever - we are not mind-readers and, most of all, do not know how you present yourself on these dating sites - men might be getting the wrong idea.

[Neveracrossword]

Sophia20, glad you've finally made a decision - and maybe next time you won't need us all to talk you through the options? You must have been dating for at least 15 years now, remind yourself that you must have gone on your instincts at times!

[Modster]

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