Do I Arrange Something For My Birthday With Katie And Chantelle

[abbeylee90]

Incase you forgot Katie is the one who hasn't bothered with me since she moved in with her partner. I don't know weather to do something with them for my birthday as I'm just thinking what to do for my birthday but I want to do something with other friends aswell. 

[newmodarmy]

No.

[Captain2]

Only YOU can make that decision.

[abbeylee90]

Cap I am thinking what to with which friends. 

[Captain2]

Well why ask us? As I say only you can make the decision.

[DDIL]

Set up a group chat call it 'my birthday'

Hi all, I am going out on xx date to celebrate my birthday - it would be great if you could join me but i fully understand if life gets in the way.

Put it out there if no one responds you have your answer, don't send out to different groups - 1 group 1 invite and leave it at that otherwise you look and sound desperate.

[abbeylee90]

I want to do things with different groups not mix everyone together. 

[DDIL]

As my dear dad would say 'I want don't get'!!!

You have just answered your own question.

 

[abbeylee90]

Yes I know but what I mean do I do something just 3 of us

[naomi24]

//Set up a group chat call it 'my birthday'

Hi all, I am going out to whatever pub/club on xx date to celebrate my birthday - it would be great if you could join me.   Let me know. //

 

Agree with that to include everyone - with the modifications in italics.

[pastafreak]

WHY Katie and Chantelle, of all people? Why do you want to have anything to do with them...are you a glutton for punishment? 

[abbeylee90]

I don't like mixing all my friends incase they don't get on and can't speak to everyone. 

[DDIL]

I don't understand, you are all adults and should know how to behave in social situations.

I have friends that are not friends with my other friends but we go out as a social group and are polite enough to get through the evening.

[abbeylee90]

Id like to do a spar day

[naomi24]

Just do as DDIL has suggested.  Set up a group chat with everyone included, tell them you're thinking of a spa day, tell them where and how much it will cost,  and let them decide if they want to go or not. 

[DDIL]

A Spa day is very different to a spar day - make sure you choose the right one.

[davebro3]

I've never done anything special on my birthdays, it never ocurred to me.

[Prudie]

I've just done a spa day this last weekend. It cost £209 per person

On a separate note NONE of the rest of us would be allowed to constantly name our friends on here without it being removed. It's not acceptable. Katie and Chantelle would be horrified and rightly so. You really are not quite with it abbey and being allowed to get away with inappropriate posts on here (add the man from dog's home you diss for example) isn't helping you in the long run.

[naomi24]

Prudie, I suggested abbey give her friends fake names on here just so that we would be able to differentiate between them.  

[calmck]

Why would you arrange to include Katie and Chantelle.

If you have a Spa Day would you pay for everyone or expect them to psy for themselves. You really need to think more carefully.

If you have different groups then it is going to cost more and who is paying.

Why not a group message to everyone. "Come and have a drink with me on-------------day. Please reply by -----

[douglas9401]

A bit of a leap of faith to believe that Katie and Chantelle exist anywhere but in the AI generator that is abbeylee, Prudie.