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Hi All, Just A Quick One If You Found Out Your Partner Was Deleting Messages To A Close Friend Of The Opposite Sex Would You Be Worried?

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Matt123456789 | 09:25 Tue 17th Apr 2018 | Family & Relationships
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Plus they say the spark has gone is there any point

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Yes, alarm bells would ring. As for your question about is there any point, that's for you to decide. If there was something worth having to start with, and you really love this person and they have loved you, I personally would fight for it with everything I had. Integrity and honesty is a good starting point, but it appears the trust has evaporated in your...
09:28 Tue 17th Apr 2018
Yes, especially if they said the spark had gone. Cut your losses, move on. You don't need that kind of secrecy in your life.
Yes, alarm bells would ring. As for your question about is there any point, that's for you to decide. If there was something worth having to start with, and you really love this person and they have loved you, I personally would fight for it with everything I had. Integrity and honesty is a good starting point, but it appears the trust has evaporated in your relationship.
How do you know they are deleting messages?

Yes, I would be worried.
I agree with ummmm...."how do you know that he is deleting them?"

Maybe no big deal.......maybe a big deal.......monitor the situation.
Wot no ibuprofen?
As already asked, how do you know they're deleting messages??

.... and IF they are deleting messages, the first question I'd be asking is what are they trying to hide and what is it that they don't want you (or maybe someone else??) to see??

I'd be VERY concerned, especially as they've already said that the spark has gone.
Just out of curiosity, how long have you been together??
Are you married; any children; living together??
Are you having a sneaky peek at your partners phone? If so, you don't trust them. Time to move on.
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Been married over 14 years with kids. She says there was nothing in it just a few flirty messages which she admits to. But he is our friend and I know what he’s like but why delete if there’s nothing to hide
Don't talk to us, talk to her.
I delete all my messages once I've read them - doesn't everyone?
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