Not dressing in 'sexy underwear'

[MissCommando]

Is it just me who doesn't dress in nice underwear for my husband? I just don't see the point. I am quite unhappy about my body, not so much my figure but I'm quite private about my husband seeing my giblets. I'm quite relaxed once the lights are switched out (I wouldn't dream of doing it with the lights on).
My husband doesn't mind, he's never mentioned anything about it.
I would just cringe if I put on some Ann summers thing, I would be so embarrassed. I'm a lights off, knickers off girl!
Do you women wear decent underwear to entice your husband/partner and do you feel embarrassed?

[rowanwitch]

pretty...lacy frills...silk... I like sort of retro 1950s stuff.. and Redman is a bit of a stockings and suspenders fan...

[ummmm]

So, you're saying if a woman doesn't wear sexy underwear....the man will cheat?

[LoftyLottie]

"and if this is not forthcoming for whatever reason in their wives or partners, will find it elsewhere. "

Absolute total rubbish in my opinion. You may think that way Sqad, doesn't say a lot for you. Please note, just my opinion, so I haven't said you are talking rubbish. ;o)

[Sqad]

ummmm....interpret my comment as you will ;-)

[whiskeryron]

// ummmm.......sexy underwear to admire on a woman.// OFF a woman Sqad.

[LoftyLottie]

God, am I glad I am not married to a shallow man!!

[ummmm]

Same Lottie....

[EcclesCake]

On the John Peel Saturday morning R4 show a female teacher wrote in with her story about underwear. One lunchtime in the staff room a male colleague asked how she coped with when the kids were playing up. She explained that her indulgence in life was pretty lingerie, when the kids were creating merry hell she would remind herself that she was wearing beautiful undies and this in turn made her feel good. Sometime later her male colleague told her that her trick worked, she looked at him with a puzzled expression. He went on to explain when ever his class was driving him crazy he thought of her in her nice underwear and he felt better immediately!

[LoftyLottie]

LOL Eccles.

We are lucky ummmm, we are not married to 'smoothies' ;o)

[ummmm]

Very lucky...

His ideal would be me getting out of the shower...and him only having to remove a towel :-)

[mccfluff]

i dress to please myself no-one else, it can be sexy or comfy whatever i feel like

[anneasquith]

i know a lady who became aware her husband was reading? porn. so one night kids in bed, she changes into a red basque,stockings. comes down stairs.......................... he couldnt stop laughing!!!!!!!!!! she was so upset, had an asthma attack and ended up in hospital overnight ( true story )

[LoftyLottie]

Likewise McFluff (what has happened to you - why have you got a black bushy beard?)

2short. Likewise too!!

Anne LOL!!! (I can imagine Mr LL doing the same, (laughing out loud, not having an asthma attack). But then again, he might not even notice!!! ;o)

[Noraq]

Strangely..expensive and sexy underwear for his wife is about the only thing that a man will not complain about when it comes to money. IMHO..I hasten to add. =)

[LoftyLottie]

Ha, ha. Mr LL doesn't complain about anything I spend. I am feeling more lucky!!! I look after our money affairs, always have, he is too happy go lucky re money.

[mccfluff]

its my 'tasche how very dare you , took me ages to grow it :-)

[Noraq]

I look after my money and he looks after his money.... with a wistful...... look as I spend it for him......lol