ChatterBank2 mins ago
Is it ever a good idea to ask your partner how many people they've been with? Even if you're in a secure relationship could you get over finding out that your lover had been with many more people than you? And if you'd slept with a lot of people (whatever 'a lot' mean to you, it's all relative I suppose), would you be totally honest with your partner you suspected they'd be upset?
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I agree with some of the above. In my younger days it seemed important but now I don't know and don't want to know, I don't even know my own "magic number" so I'd be in the sh1t if my gf asked me now! I'd have to try and make one up that wasn't too bad, I mean you can't say, I've lost count can you?
I've been perfectly honest with my fella and we've laughed about it. Sometimes during these 'open' conversations he gets very defensive until he realises that I just don't give a damn and that I'm actually winding him up! hahahaha!
My gf and I know each others and we regularly talk about it and the love lifes we had with our previous partners - it doesn't phase either of us and we have a chuckle over some of the daft stuff we've done in the past.
That is the operative word here - PAST. It's in the past and your partner is with you cos they love you, not their exes or what their exes did for them.
It's the here and now that counts. For us anyway.