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Wouldnt give McMillan a bent washer after how they have humilitated my mum and left her in so much pain.
Even had nurses taking off their PPE to give her a bed bath, What The Funicular?
Denied her pain relief. The GP had to overide them on that one.
The list can go on forever...
Hope I die of anything but cancer if thats the care that I can I can look forward to.
Even had nurses taking off their PPE to give her a bed bath, What The Funicular?
Denied her pain relief. The GP had to overide them on that one.
The list can go on forever...
Hope I die of anything but cancer if thats the care that I can I can look forward to.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.A do share your concerns, with mine my impression in a nursing home sadly was she was just a unit a commodity not a person, we found her left wearing no clothes when we called in unexpected, and when they moved her she was just pushed over on the bed like a bag of sand. There are am sure many loving carers who start off wanting to care deeply but a think there so busy and hardend by the job that some, maybe alot, see their residents/patients as an object
//I don't know how you held your anger in Nails, I think I'd have gone ballistic.//
Mozz, my sister is my primary carer for my mum at the moment (im working in the week)
Its a ball ache trying to care for her.
I swear to god tho that if I was there when these daft tw*ts came out that I would blow my top...
She is just left in agony....
Mozz, my sister is my primary carer for my mum at the moment (im working in the week)
Its a ball ache trying to care for her.
I swear to god tho that if I was there when these daft tw*ts came out that I would blow my top...
She is just left in agony....
We have had nothing but praise for McMillan nurses in the 2 or 3 cases we have known. OH's daughter - died aged 50, 9 years ago - would not have been able to die peacefully at home without them. Something seems to have gone badly wrong here.
I don't see a problem really with the nurses removing their PPE to give a bed bath. Your mum may have felt happier being able to see faces for such an intimate job and, very sorry to say this, Nailit, her time is limited anyway.
The pain relief is hugely different. No-one, no-one should die suffering from unnecessary pain . 'All pain is unnecessary' was the motto of our French hospital. The G.P. seems to be on the ball - go directly to him/her.
I can understand, and we can all share, your apprehensions. I have few illusions about the generality of the NHS these days. Some bits are excellent - but this crisis has frightened most of us I suspect. It's scared me and shattered the few veils of illusion I had left.
I don't see a problem really with the nurses removing their PPE to give a bed bath. Your mum may have felt happier being able to see faces for such an intimate job and, very sorry to say this, Nailit, her time is limited anyway.
The pain relief is hugely different. No-one, no-one should die suffering from unnecessary pain . 'All pain is unnecessary' was the motto of our French hospital. The G.P. seems to be on the ball - go directly to him/her.
I can understand, and we can all share, your apprehensions. I have few illusions about the generality of the NHS these days. Some bits are excellent - but this crisis has frightened most of us I suspect. It's scared me and shattered the few veils of illusion I had left.
My sister....my mums mane carer....was due to have a knee replacement at the start of lockdown, she can hardly stand on it now.
But she spends money on a Taxi down to my mums everyday and try's to get mum onto the toilet etc because otherwise my mum will soil herself while waiting for ''care'' to come in.
(Down for a breakfast visit which can be anything up until 11 oclock)
What a joke....
But she spends money on a Taxi down to my mums everyday and try's to get mum onto the toilet etc because otherwise my mum will soil herself while waiting for ''care'' to come in.
(Down for a breakfast visit which can be anything up until 11 oclock)
What a joke....
It’s the hardest time, nailit, and you have my sincere sympathy. I really don’t understand why your mum is suffering unnecessarily but personal care like washing is not usually carried out by Macmillan nurses. Others are allocated to those tasks. Macmillan nurses are specialists and having had considerable help and support from them I honestly can’t fault them.