Lois, I don't know what your problems are, but my advise is to keep everything in perspective, stress is a dreadful road to go down and can have repercussions a long time after. So sort your problems out as soon as you can , talk to someone, it is so true that a problem shared is a problem halved ( well maybe not quite, but helps to de stress). I had so many problems a year ago and until I unburdened myself to my son I couldn't sleep and had those dreaded knots . Everything can be solved ( except death and terminal illness of course ). There is always someone worse off than you, small consolation, but look at the good things in your life. Hope it all works out for you.