My Hubby

[mallyh]

i've been holding back writing this as i just don't want to face it ....hubby has been diagnosed with cancer of the bladder and kidney ,they also found out he only has one functioning kidney and guess where the growth is .

[Sqad]

That is one tough call, for your husband, you and the surgeons.

[ummmm]

I'm so sorry.
Can it be treated? Xx

[Tilly2]

Oh, goodness, Mallyh! What can they do for him?

[Islay]

So sorry to hear this thinking of you

[anneasquith]

Such difficult news to absorb, I can offer you both, best wishes, positives thoughts , prayers if you wish. Take care .

[Patsy33]

I can understand you not wanting to face this Mallyh. Let's hope something can be done. Xx

[mallyh]

they are going to scrap him and work out what type he has then tell us the treatment but they can't do this until 3 weeks time ,but he has been going in hospital every couple of days to have a three way catheter put in to get rid of clots that are blocking him , it's horrendous for him

[mallyh]

im writing this on here as i need to hold it together, i just want to sit and cry .and all he keeps saying is "are you ok "

[Bathsheba]

Oh Mallyh, the poor guy. So sorry to read this, but you know you will get plenty of support by posting on here.
~Baths~
x x x

[mallyh]

thankyou all ,we certainly need all your support xx

[mallyh]

im off now to pick him up from hospital x

[Old_Geezer]

My sympathy to you both. Must be something they can do. Good luck.

[dannyk13]

Devastating news Mally. Let's hope it reaches a satifactory conclusion.

[horselady]

So sorry to hear this. You know you will get loads of support on here. You will look after him, but remember to look after yourself too.xx

[BAKERS DOZEN]

So sorry to hear your news mallyh. Hope you will be able to get some support as well as your hubby. The beauty of AB is that there is usually someone on here 24 hours of the day if you need a chat. Love to you both. BD xx

[pixie374]

Best wishes to you both, mally xxx

[kvalidir]

Oh Mally I am so sorry, how awful for you. Get treatment advice from your husband's doctors and then get other opinions too if that's not satisfactory. That's what my grandfather did and his treatment with his second team worked out extremely well for him. Much you love to you both xx

[MargoTester]

Mally I'm so sorry to hear this, devastating news for you both. I'll be thinking of you and hope they will be able to find a suitable treatment xxxx

[elliemay1]

Mallyh, so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you both x

[Mamyalynne]

Mally. I've only just seen this - what a heartbreaking situation.

Please use us as a sounding board and some release however small from this pain and worry.

I send love and strength to you both.x