Complexed Situation, Advice Needed.

sacha.86 | 22:38 Thu 03rd Sep 2015 | Family & Relationships

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Hiya, my seven year old son recently told me of indecent acts going on in front of him displayed by his Dad and his Dad's partner. Since then I have told his Dad he can only see him on public from now on. Since I changed the arrangements of access he hasn't seen him for months. He recently arranged to take him out to the cinema to which I agreed. I have found out this evening that it won't just be the two of them and that his partner will be joining them. Now I don't feel or think he will be completely safe. If I now tell his Dad he can't go, they are going to pull the jealous-x card on me. I haven't confronted his Dad about what I was told, he will deny it and potentially become quite aggressive. I've also promised my son I won't tell his father about what he disclosed to me, as I don't want his Dad becoming aggressive towards him. I think he suspects that I know and has done this on purpose to find out if I know or not, but I'm not 100%. Either way the cinema isn't the right place for them to meet amd I don't know how to cancel with out a massive hoohar. Any advice?

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If I take him through court he's probably gona cut off from him, he will be heart broken. But you are all right theres no other alternative. Thanks for all your help

EDDIE51

For example the father of my grandchild was told he had to attend classes in parenting skills if he wanted access to his child. He refused at first but actually enjoyed it in the end.

Sammy48

I wish you and your son well, Sacha.

tinkerbell23

Do you think they intentionally had sex infront of the child?

Id get legal help. If you truley cant afford it then there must be help...esp if you feel your son is at risk....

Is the cinema then home not safer than being indoors?

100% cancel if hes as risk and say you are seeking legal advice.

Well done that your son could approach you to talk xxx

tinkerbell23

Ps sounds like if dad cuts himseld off it may be a blessing....your son will realise when he is older...best wishes xxx

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