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Hockey-man3727 | 02:39 Mon 02nd Mar 2015 | Society & Culture
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So im a grade 11 male student and a few weeks ago there was a girls volleyball tournament being held at my school, none of the girls really catch my eye until I looked at this one gorgeous girl, and I felted strong feeling about her, that im that type of guy that has no feeling I don't show anything I don't care about anything just my self and my body, ive been single for 10 years now, and I picked to be that way, I could easily get a girl but ive never wanted one but that all changed when i saw her, anyways she lives like 1 hour away from my small town. and after her game i was going to talk to her but something came over me and i frozen and that's also a first for me ive never gotten nervous around anyone before, so she left and i never got her name and no one that i know knows her, and ever since she left i couldn't stop thinking about her, and today i was bugging me so much that i spent 3 hours just looking for her on facebook, and now im scared to message her.. im not scared of getting her male friends after me, im a very build guy with build friends im just scared because shes so beautiful. so what should i do just wait til i see her again or message her.. if message her what should i say i always have a good way with words but i have no idea what to say..
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What's the problem - you say you could easily get a girl, so prove it.
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but I wanted that right girl the one ill be happy with, and I want to go with what my heart is telling me, and go for this girl.. but I don't know if I should just messaged her out of the blue
If you do decide to "message" the young lady I suggest you obtain help with spelling and grammar.
Even if you do have a good way with words you would hate to appear uneducated.
Good luck!
DR Who has the answer to everything

"Middle Kazran: I've never kissed anyone before - -what do I do?
The Doctor: Well, try and be all nervous and rubbish and a bit shaky.
Middle Kazran: Why?
The Doctor: Because you're going to be like that, anyway. You might as well make it part of the plan then it will feel on purpose, off you go then."
Dr Who A Christmas Carol 2010

You imply that you found her when you searched. In which case you could try to message her, but I'm unsure the reaction to a message from a stranger from out of the blue. If your schools are not getting together again soon then maybe best to write her off and resolve to be braver on future opportunities.
Can you find someone on FB without knowing their name?
Sqad, yes, if you have friends in common.
OK...thanks^^^^^
You seem to assume that just because you fancy her, she is bound to fancy you once she knows you exist. This kind of arrogance Really Really puts women off. It seems likely that she saw you and didn't fancy you, or she might have indicated some atraction somehow - even by smiling. If she is so gorgeous, she probably has a boyfriend anyway.

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