Abortion..

[Rhian92]

Hello. A few weeks ago i was getting strange pains and generally decided something was up, i took 3 tests and all came back positive but very faintly. I decided be ause of the pains to go to my walk in centre at a&e and was told i wasnt pregnant. However i still hadnt started my period so decided to go to my gp (thank god!) and i was. Myself and the babys father have been together over a year, im 21 and he is 23. Both living at home and he works at said hospital whereas i currently dont have a job (left previous work looking for new place). I told my parents straight away, my dad was sensible and said the time isnt right for me and i cant support a child whereas my mam is more maternal and saw the other side to it. I have friends who have kids all of whom are single mothers and i see they manage okay. Myself and the babies father have a very turbulent relationship and we dont have a current stanle environment for a child so we made the decision to abort. I had the first pill today and go back monday to complete the process. I guess im looking for some comfort. I feel very emotional. Its my baby and i wonder if its a girl or a boy, wonder what they wouldve looked like etc and it kakes me feel upset. I dont know what im going to go through and whether i may see the foetus on monday but i just feel so guilty already. I have a very good home environmemt and know the baby wouldve been loved so im struggling with my decision, although i know at this point its too late. Has anybody else been through this and can offer guidance?

[gness]

Then stay with us, Rhian....Naomi rarely throws that custard pie...☺

[naomi24]

x

[naomi24]

Drat, Gness! I didn't see your post before I planted that kiss to Rhian.

Here you are .... sperlatt!!

Only joking. Lots of love. x

[murraymints]

Rhian..you did absolutely the right thng for you, you will think what if ? from time to time in years to come..but..what ifs don`t all have a happy ending...you had to live in the day and make a very difficult decision.... I wish you well for your future and ..don`t beat yourself up anymore..you have a life ahead of you..go out and live it!.. take care xx

[gness]

And I thought you were kissing me..... ;-)

Off to shower.....x

[harrylggy]

Dear friend, I dislike abortion as it is so harmful for your body. Please, take care your health and try to avoid abortion further.