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Shunning
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Have you got any family members that shun you, for whatever reason?
If so, how do you cope with it?
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If so, how do you cope with it?
Thanks.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I'm no longer in any real contact with any of my family - I occasionally 'speak' to my twin sister on FB, I am friends with one aunt on FB and my half-brother sends me a birthday text (but I think that might be automated). Himself is not in contact with his sister and wasn't in contact with his father who died and was cremated without informing him. I view it as their loss, they don't get to see what brilliant people my children are growing into.
In the summer of '76 I met the most beautiful girl in the world. Her mother disapproved as I was in the services, I still don't get it. We married in 1977 and have been shunned by her family ever since. My mother in law died two years ago and just out of curiosity I got a copy of her will. In the will she mentioned her two children, ignoring the inconvenient fact that she had thee children. Who was the loser here, it definately wasn't me.
it's nice to have family members who you're close to and will stand by you.
But those who won't are basically just casual acquaintances you can ignore as you please. There's no law requiring us to love our kinfolk.
Is this an actual problem for you? Is someone shunning you when you want to be close to them? There's really nothing you can do about this. You can't change other people's behaviour, only your own.
But those who won't are basically just casual acquaintances you can ignore as you please. There's no law requiring us to love our kinfolk.
Is this an actual problem for you? Is someone shunning you when you want to be close to them? There's really nothing you can do about this. You can't change other people's behaviour, only your own.