My Best Friend Has Permission Problems!

[jaweriyazulfi]

so this is a friend of mine who had a boyfriend and was caught, about 2 months have passed her parents wont allow her to go to school at first for a week and she isnt allowed on any trips functions etc.we have an upcoming function at our school and i want her to come but we are afraid her parents wont allow. is there something we can do?

[ummmm]

How old is she?

[EDDIE51]

It is illegal to keep a child away from school without a valid reason and having a boyfriend is not a valid reason.

[Sqad]

^^^;-)

[EDDIE51]

I would ask the headteacher to phone the parents and ask why the child is not at school.

[Sqad]

\\\so this is a friend of mine who had a boyfriend and was caught, \\\\

Caught? in flagrante delicto?

[ummmm]

The OP said the parents didn't send her to school for a week.

[Peter Pedant]

we all assume this occurs in the UK
I think azulfi is one of your names

keeping a child away from school is against the law but that is not the question. You want to go to a function with her

I would approach the parents and ask their permission
making various points
they know who you are
you will be responsible
you will be back by a time ( and keep to it ) = reliable
( and a few others)

you want her to come so she can meet the forbidden boyfriend ? hmmm difficult one

you havent given ages I imagine you are not both under 12

[jaweriyazulfi]

she was allowed to come to school after a week but since then her parents have had been quite strict. They wont allow her on any other programs especially after school or any get togethers, though two months have passed but we were afraid they wont allow. and for her parents her mother is a teacher at the same school and her father also used to be in the school head office so they are aware of all the school functions etc. our homeroom teacher also called her father thrice but he told her that he knows everything regarding the function. Today's the last date of registration but fortunately her parents allowed her trusting her once more and trusting me too as her best friend. i hope everything go's fine.

[jaweriyazulfi]

we are 14.

[Smowball]

Was caught doing what?

[Answerprancer]

Caught "being intimate" I imagine. Sounds like it's not being handled rationally and sensibly. A refresher in the facts of life (assuming they have already been taught) comes to mind.
Jaweriya, I am guessing by your name that you are Muslim. It looks as if you are just going to have to go along with the strict parents. It sucks but I'm sure it will pass.