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Am I Lesbian?
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Hello.....i dont know if i always had a gay tendency, but i am a tomboy so... Ok lets start: i am girl and i am 13. I discovered kpop 1 year ago when i was 12 and until i discovered kpop i've never question my sexuality. I discovered a lot of kpop boy bands with very handsome boys and yes, i felt in love with some of them but no, not to much. It was just the love in that moment or day but when i discovered girl groups i just felt in love with them more than boys....since 6 months i am so in love with a member of a past group and she is just too perfect for this planet...i know it is so weird but please dont judge me...and im so in love that i sometimes cry when i see her with boys... i have never been in love like this....i am almost depressed because i love her to much and my love is growing up every day. I dont know what to do...i know i will never meet her because i live in europe, far away from South Korea...i just wanna know your opinions, you think im lesbian? Please dont laugh at this....
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You might be a lesbian. But then again, you might not be. Don't worry about it. It matters not one jot. The person you ultimately fall in love with is not a conscience decision you make. Girl or boy, it's not really your choice. Go with it however it leads you.
You're probably going through a 'crush'. People talk about 'crushes' in a sometimes condescending manner. They shouldn't. I had crushes at your age and I know just how real they are. They hurt.
However, the bad news is that there's no quick fix. Nothing I (or anyone else can say) will make you feel better. You've just got to just ride it out. Painful as it may be, you'll emerge at at the other end a better person and more emotionally mature.
Chanmi24 - “... Please dont laugh at this....”
No one's laughing at you. Good luck.
You might be a lesbian. But then again, you might not be. Don't worry about it. It matters not one jot. The person you ultimately fall in love with is not a conscience decision you make. Girl or boy, it's not really your choice. Go with it however it leads you.
You're probably going through a 'crush'. People talk about 'crushes' in a sometimes condescending manner. They shouldn't. I had crushes at your age and I know just how real they are. They hurt.
However, the bad news is that there's no quick fix. Nothing I (or anyone else can say) will make you feel better. You've just got to just ride it out. Painful as it may be, you'll emerge at at the other end a better person and more emotionally mature.
Chanmi24 - “... Please dont laugh at this....”
No one's laughing at you. Good luck.