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children out of wedlock

What do the Bible say about a man and a woman that have children out of wedlock that live together and are rasing their children?Is it ok for that man and that woman to still have sex? In what way will this situation have an effect on the children and the parents? If the parents marry will their sin be justified?


franklin5  Tue 20/05/08 19:22
Mani Hussain
Thurs 22/05/08
20:26
Let's face it wizard, your behaviour on answerbank has proven that you probably shouldn't be in open society let alone raising children.

What you have is not a loving carefully planned family, but the same inevitible freakshow that is bourne of a life without morals that we see on council estates all over the country. I wonder how much you are costing the taxpayer.

But it's not to late to change, just look at how I transformed my life.
ghetto poet
Thurs 22/05/08
20:30
Mani you should think about what you are saying. My mom got pregnant when she was young and I have never met my dad. I promise you its very hard and painful and I dont appreciate being called illigitamate.
Mani Hussain
Thurs 22/05/08
20:33
Yes ghetto, I'm sure it must be very difficult and painful to know that your mom is a s1ut who likes to put it about before she is bound within a secure relationship. Explains a lot.
Octavius
Thurs 22/05/08
20:41
Have I stepped into the twilight zone? Is this really you Mani, have you been on the sauce?

As a Christian, I find your comments offensive and the work of a deranged narrow-minded intolerant bigot.
wizard66
Thurs 22/05/08
20:46
ffs, for once me and ghetto poet actually agree. Mani, my stepsons dad legged it when he found out he was going to be a father and my stepson finds it very difficult to deal with.
SO? You made it off a council estate did you? how very godly of you. Fukcin halfwit. Get a life you sad cnut.
wizard66
Thurs 22/05/08
20:50
Lets face it Mani...no woman is EVER going to give you the chance to father a child with her and you know it, that is why you are getting so het up about it. You are probably sitting on your own with just your computer for company dreaming of the day when you can make love to a woman and knowing in your heart of hearts that its not going to happen because you are such a sad lonly self righteous tw@t.
Mani Hussain
Thurs 22/05/08
21:05
Wizard, Im not going to trade personal insults with you, we know that only leads you down the road to the usual death threats.

Anyway you couldnt be more wrong about me. Im a popular and well-liked guy who is never short of female attention. When I choose to father a child it will be in morally upright circumstances.
wizard66
Thurs 22/05/08
21:06
modest as well I see?
wizard66
Thurs 22/05/08
21:07
what else do you fantasise about?
Mani Hussain
Thurs 22/05/08
21:16
Look wizard, if thinking Im a sad lonley person makes you feel better about the way you life has turned out go ahead, no skin off my nose.

wizard66
Thurs 22/05/08
21:21
I will thank you, I am the one in a happy, loving relationship with two kids that I would die for...you, on the other hand are a self righteous bigot who sits alone judging others through your sad lonly belief system with no one for company except youself and a computer screen.
I will be off to bed in a mo with a loving woman to caress and love while you have got only your hand to satisfy you.
night, night saddo
Mani Hussain
Thurs 22/05/08
21:28
If your lifestyle makes you as happy as you describe then why do you spend you time inciting murder on the internet, threatening to kill yourself and other people, spreading racism and hatred, getting drunk and abusive all the time.

I can honestly say that I do hope your happy but your actions suggest otherwise to me. I think you want something better.
wizard66
Thurs 22/05/08
21:39
If what I want makes me like YOU...then no, I dont want it.
Someone who comes on AB calling women s1uts because theyve choosen the stigma of an illigitamate child over having an abortion, calling kids, whose father has deserted them "little sh!ts", condemming charity groups who try to help women who have fallen into prostitution, believing that women should never divorce an abusive husband, condemming people because they have a black child, looking down on people who live in council accomadation. NO Mani, I wouldnt want to be like you.
I'd rather pour bleach in my eyes and stick pins under my finger nails than be like you. Self righteous little knob.
wizard66
Thurs 22/05/08
21:40
Now go and play with the only friend that you have got...your right hand. W@nker
sheribeee
Thurs 22/05/08
21:42
Mani hussein, u ignorant bar steward!!!!!!
How dare u speak of unmarried couples who have children so terribly!
I am 27, my husband is 34, we have been together for nearly 11 years, he has a brilliant job as a carpenter, and i am a qualified nurse, we have now purchased our 3rd house and are noe mortgage free thanks to playing the housing market.#We had out 1st child when i was 19, and 2nd when i was 22. We married when our 2nd child was 5 months old.
We are good honest people who love each other and our children very much!! They were wanted and have everything they wish for.
I pay my bills, have a lovely house, good car, and am a kind, generous person.
You on the other hand are narrow minded, and seem to be very far from what many would call a christian!#God knows whats in your mind and heart!!! so looking down on people and forming opinions like that is, i am sure how god would not want his followers to behave!
U should be ashamed!!
Children that are loved and born into happy, loving relationships are not wrong, or bad, or damned to hell.... they are precious, and our future, married parents or NOT!!!!
wizard66
Thurs 22/05/08
21:46
Dont bother sheribee..he's an idiot pretending to be a human.
wizard66
Thurs 22/05/08
21:47
a perfect example of why siblings shouldnt sleep together...
Ethel
Thurs 22/05/08
21:50
Here is one Church of England's vicar's view:

http://www.baptism.org.uk/unmarried.htm

And a recent CofE stance:

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1531113 /Church-backs-legal-rights-for-parents-who-liv e-in-sin.html


A Roman Catholic view:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/133571 1.stm

Religion has to evolve and adapt to serve modern day life- otherwise the Churches would have died out centuries ago. The Holy Bible is open to interpretation, like all written words, and this is partly why there are so many denominations of Christian faith.
Some in religious authority would quote parts of the Bible that condemn unmarried parents; others would quote parts which allow for this situation.

I suggest you talk to your local vicar or priest who will hopefully give you peace of mind.




DrFilth
Thurs 22/05/08
21:51
wizzard66 i have not liked much of what you have posted in the past but tonight i agree a lot with what you have said.not everyone brought up in a working class home or a council house home is a $hithead .not everyone has the good fortune to get better housing and well paid jobs but they still love and luck after there kids,
DrFilth
Thurs 22/05/08
21:52
look not luck..sorry
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