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murraymints | 08:54 Thu 03rd Jul 2014 | ChatterBank
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Sorry didn't get to chastise you lot on gmeb ...at mum's dad not good and she's not coping...he had a nasty growth cut from his ear and its not healing..it was a big one and they had to take it back to the bone, so he's in extreme pain which nobody seems to be able to control...doc coming in later to see him. He's finally sleeping...wish I was ! May manage a nap later but it's more important that mum gets some and someone has to stay awake ! St Peter you watching ?....
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Sorry to hear you are having a troubling time with your parents,very worrying for you and draining and wearisome for your poor Mum,glad you are there to help,I hope the doc gives him adequate pain relief when he or she comes and that you get a kip soon,best wishesx
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Thanks vak the last two years since his diagnosis have been spent in some kind of crisis, but it's showing on mum who is normally so strong ..
[[[(((hugs)))]]]

Dxx
Sorry to hear about your father's problems murraymints.

In case St. Peter is too busy then you could try St.Cornelius or St.Madron who may be a bit quieter. :-)
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Hugs back Dave xx sir o can they credit my get into heaven account too ? :-/
I am so sorry to hear this,until yesterday I have not communicated with you and am afraid I don't know the history of your Dad's illness,but if Mum and the family have been enduring this for the last two years,never mind your poor father,it certainly does take it's toll on the family and especially your Mum who is there 24/7.
Minty
Maybe they can,but don't be too greedy.;-)
Hugs to everyone, hope you dad becomes more comfortable and you and your Mum get some rest xxx
Sorry to hear of your problems MM. Don't know the background but from what I've read it certainly must be taking its toll on your poor mum. Hope the doc can sort out some pain relief so you can all get the rest you so obviously need. Never underestimate the power of prayer - sending one up for you and your family now.
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Vak dad was diagnosed with cancer of the bile duct gland and had aggressive chemotherapy and radiotherapy which seemed to help but it was a regular blue light job to hossie in middle of night..not only did I know the staff I knew the recurring patients and lived on blueberry muffins provided by wrvs...more recently he has been presenting skin tumours that have to be cut out not pleasant but necessary..also painful when they don't heal, he is also diabetic and his kidney function has been compromised by radiotherapy...so his pain management is not so straightforward....oh and he's a grumpy git...bless him !
Minty - so sorry to hear about dad - must be awful for mum and yourself.
I'm sure you will have enough credits to get gold wings when you eventually become an angel. I do so admire your devotion to your parents, wish all daughters could be as good.
It`s hard isn`t it? You just have to keep going though. It`s got to the point where I know half of the staff at Kingston hospital, many of the other cancer patients and a lot of the donated magazines in the unit were mine. Thank God for free blue badge parking!
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Thanks shar x welshie x Maggie as a goodish Catholic girl I know all about prayer I say so many hail Mary's for the souls of the reprobates on here ! Seriously thank you...
Morning.....thinking of you, Minty....and Mum and Dad.....he's suffering so much and I know it's awful for you both when you're having to watch someone you love in pain....x

On a lighter note.....I thought I might be going to heaven...can't see we'll both get in though.......isn't it supposed to be a place of peace and tranquility?

Gx
Oh my goodness MM you have all certainly been through the mill no wonder you are all so exhausted by it all,having diabetes on top of all this will not help with the healing process and I expect the radio and chemo will have made his immune system well and truly shattered,little surprise he is grumpy to say the least.God bless him,and I know it is easy to say but stay strong and hang in there!
would a few decades of the auld rosary help ?
That's tough Minty. Hope you all manage to get some rest xx
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Gness I believe there's a space for us both reserved in a far corner well away from garden equipment ladders or any other type of tool ! As long as there's a kettle etc , maybe a telly..plug point for kindle...sauna, Jacuzzi......
morning mm give dad and mum best wishes xx
christ girly you do go through it what with mum and dad your pretty face all mucked up too i'm giving you a big cuddle you deserve one xx
(i'm only being nice for one day tho) lol
don't move anywhere then you will be ok xxxxxxxx
You forgot wine and Stephen Fry....☺

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