Incestuous Relationship

[kittymimi88]

Should i be worried that my boyfriend will again have a 'new' incestuous relationship with his aunt? My boyfriend told me that when he was younger he used to sleep with his cousins and the recent was 2-3 months before we became exclusive and we're living together for more than a year now. I'm going out of the country for a month and both he and his aunt told me that she's staying over night at our place, which consists of only a small room with 1 bed. So they'll be in that same room, same bed together alone for 1 night. His aunt is 30( single and a virgin) while my boyfriend is 24. Im so confused whether to trust them... Him or not. Since he's slready done it with his younger cousin last time who's just turned 18. He's very close to that aunt maybe because of the small gap in age but he was also very close to those cousins when he did it with them... Repeatedly. Advise me please!

[DTCwordfan]

well that's one way to put his family to the test.

[RATTER15]

Get out of the relationship, all sounds a bit dodgy!!

[chanel5]

Having sex with a cousin is not incest. First cousins are permitted to marry in the UK. the aunt is a different case. If you are so untrusting toward him, I wonder why you stay with him.

[DTCwordfan]

you already have one thread open with the same subject, the Ed takes a dim view of such spamming onto other topics. Ask for a delete of this one by hitting the report button

[DTCwordfan]

sorry the other thread in Relationships and Dating

[hc4361]

I'm confused. The cousins are not the aunt's children so what is the relationship between cousins and aunt?

[ummmm]

The children of one of the aunts siblings.

[Prudie]

I think it's just to shock us into thinking this guy has a penchant for sleeping with family...

[naomi24]

I'm confused too - and how do you know the aunt is a virgin - and why is that relevant?

[kittymimi88]

He having sex with his own family members

[naomi24]

kittymimi88, if he's having sex with his own family members give him the boot. Problem solved.

[jackthehat]

He's had consensual sex with 'family members' he is not legally barred from having sex with?

Not quite sure I see the 'drama'....

[dannyk13]

Criminal definition of incest:-
https://www.ncjrs.gov/App/publications/abstract.aspx?ID=62900

[CrapAtCryptics]

I`d stay well away from a family like that - you can almost hear the banjos.....

[woofgang]

Its simple. If you mind them walk; if you don’t mind then stay.

[kittymimi88]

Well im sorry to you all if you think im a prude and find his behavior a taboo. I do love him of course I've forgiven his previous mistake but i cant forget it, especially now that he's telling me his gonna sleep tonight with his aunt on our own bed. Maybe im just paranoid, but you don't know what's it like to be molested as a child by your own father no less.yes, im a little paranoid and i just can't help it

[Quizmonster]

"You can almost hear the banjos....."
That's got to be the funniest response on AnswerBank in recent times, CAC!

[naomi24]

//I do love him of course //

Ditch him. You'll love someone else when he's out of your life.