<<Remember that old saying "one may have to be cruel to be kind?"
Nothing else seems to have worked.>>
Thanks, Sqad. I'm FAT (just typing it loud in case you're DEAF). I'm also old, have vitiligo; I'm half Chinese which makes the vitiligo look worse and I'm a b@@***. (an old, fat, pie-bald b@@***....?) On top of all this I, I have Grave's disease and find it very difficult to keep my weight under any kind of control - so what 'kind' words are you going to use to make me lose weight?



