thanks for you answers everyone.
there is no noticeable damage on our car but it is a bit of an old banger so new scratches would go unnoticed i suppose!
i have accepted im paying the damage which is annoying enough (still to find out the cost but i bet they'll tart it up a lot!) but i dont fancy a fine and points on top of that.
the other driver is saying that i ignored their request for details and then drove off. they are also sayin they heard "a crash and a bang" though which makes me laugh when we were only goin at 1mph when we supposedly touched them! I think the independent witness cant remember much other than the passenger gettin out - so that is all they have said. thats all i rememebr too!
my problem is that i am only a named driver on my brother's insurance policy. he doesnt have legal cover and doesnt want me to claim cos it wud affect his no claims and push his future insurance costs up. I told him there was a slight possibility I may have scratched them unawares due to the circumstances, but i didnt think I had, and he said he thought it would be best to simply pay the damage rather than fight it and for them to then produce witnesses saying they saw me do it, which they have.
I hope you are right anyway and they dont take it any further. just cant help worrying - ive never been in trouble before!! haha! lets just hope its a nice police officer dealing with it!
thanks.