A Little Freaked Out.

[seanne]

A man who I met walking into town, a couple of years ago, is starting to pester me to go for a coffee or call him to talk, especially if I have a problem. I saw him in town today, we chatted, and later in a shop queue and he looked behind and said I think you are stalking me, but I don't mind. He was hanging about until I got served, but I went back into the shop, to avoid him, as he said he was walking home shortly and we could be walking home at the same time. I think he is lonely, he is retired and his slightly younger wife is still working. He seems to be a nice person but he is a married man and I don't want him to keep asking me out etc. I do not want to be rude but I have a full life and TBH do not want to meeting a married man.What shall I do ?

[Broseph]

Simply tell him you're not going in the same direction as you're on the way to the cagefighting arena to meet your world championship fiance.

[seanne]

LOL

[Mamyalynne]

Surprised you told him you didn't mind being stalked.

However just keep saying no and walking on.

[seanne]

Sorry no he said i was stalking him and then he said he did not mind me doing that

[seanne]

He did not mind if I stalked him

[rsvp]

Unless I've misunderstood Mammalynne it was Seanne who was behind the man and he said he didn't mind being stalked by her.

[Sqad]

He wants a sexual relationship with you.
If you are in agreement.......no problem.
If you are not......" If you don't stop following me i will tell your wife."

[seanne]

Yuk not on your nelly

[Mamyalynne]

Sorry, my mistake I misread your sentence.


Give him a wide berth.

[Sqad]

O.K...then it is the 3rd suggestion on my above post.

[Retrochic]

seanne he is a sad old fool -the next time he offers to buy you coffee just say'why not ask your wife out? -she's working hard while you are now retired -she could do with a treat'

[Retrochic]

Sqad why should she tell his wife? bit childish n'est pas?

[seanne]

I would not tell his wife, no

[sandyRoe]

He may be lonely with his wife out all day at work. Tell him about AB. That would give him something to help pass the time.

[cupid04]

Sqad not all men are randy beggars like you...he's probably just lonely while his wife is still at work and wants some companionship ;-)

[seanne]

Thats what I think Sandy, I asked him if he had any friends and he said he goes to the air cadets, I think he was a pilot

[Sqad]

cupid

\\\\\Sqad not all men are randy beggars like you...he's probably just lonely while his wife is still at work and wants some companionship ;-)\\\

;-)

Retro

\\\\Sqad why should she tell his wife? bit childish n'est pas?\\\

Childish?....not really AND it would work which seems to be the object of the OP's query.

[HansUrbancka]

Tell him that No way is he going to fly his kite with you.

Hans.

[Retrochic]

I've always found running to tell tales to wives a bit unnecessary. Falling for the 'I'm just lonely/my wife doesn't understand me is just as bad. When will women realise men (unless Gay) do not want you as friends and confidants (they have mates and dogs for that).

[Sqad]

Read my first post.:

"if you don't stop following me"

That would be enough and you wouldn't need to tell his wife.