Today Is The Anniversary.....

[Jeza]

Of the death of my son. I have tried to think positive thoughts all day. The good times we had, holidays, birthdays, christmas etc. I have now poured my self a drink. Mic is in bed. I will not wallow. I keep telling my self this, but I'm afraid I'm not winning. Cheer me up people.

[lcg]

You are allowed to feel like this, y'know. As for the cheering up.......my cat has just fallen into the bath when my hubby was in it! To say neither is best pleased is an understatement. And I quite literally wet myself laughing. At least he left the water in ;)

[losgigs]

Jeza - we're thinking of you on this horrible day. Keep remembering the fun times you had with him. He wouldn't want you to be sad but I know it's hard. You've managed to get through most of the day so have your drink then go to bed - tomorrow is another day. Hugs (()). x

[Gran67]

Sorry for your loss Jeza xx think of the good times.

[2sp_]

I'm so sorry, Jeza. It's ok to wallow from time to time, but if you want cheering up...

The worst joke in the world -

What do you get if you cross a ferret with a beaver?

A fever.

(Copyright Mr P 1992 - he was only 10)

[woofgang]

Jeza I am so sorry. My experience is that sometimes you have to look your grief in the face and just get through the bad bit how you can.

[Gran67]

Besides you're allowed to wallow.

[Sparkles62]

Hi Jeza, its a sad day for you today, but i'm sure you must have some lovely happy memories, and plenty of times that make you smile when you look back on them, can I ask how old he was?

[askyourgran]

Jeza these things happen and there is nothing on God's earth to help. Last week I went to a funeral of my nephew, hewas 50 years old. His parents are getting on now and they were both distraught. They are getting on a bit now and luckily they have another younger son who is always there for them. Be grateful for the time you had with him Jeza, I know it's not a lot of help but keep him in your heart. x

[Giggsie]

Hugs Jezza((())) keep your memories alive x

[askyourgran]

Looks like I repeated myself a bit there. ^^ Hope mic is holding his own.

[Sharingan]

So sorry Jeza, there's really nothing I can say except that xx

[Jeza]

He was 38. He will always be in my heart.

[2sp_]

I feel like a right arse posting such a stupid joke...

Sorry, Jeza. My misguided effort at cheering you up. I wasn't trying to ignore your pain or loss.

[Zacs-Master]

Of course he will Jeza. As Sharingan said, there's nothing I can say but how sorry I am at your loss.

[Gran67]

if you don't mind me asking. How did he die Jeza?

[Mamyalynne]

You are allowed to wallow, it is only natural - I doubt I or anyone would be any different really.

Am rubbish at jokes but expert at (((HUGS)) ♥

[Jeza]

Mic has good and bad days. Going on the anniversary, today was not one of his best. We ate his favourite meal opened a bottle of wine and toasted him. Where ever he is.

[leahbee]

So sorry Jeza . The loss of a child must be the hardest thing to bear,I really can't think of any thing to say to cheer you up.I just feel for you. Hope you sleep well.

[marval]

I am sorry to hear that, allow yourself to wallow. He will always be with you in spirit. xx

[joggerjayne]

Love to you, jeza x x x