Moving In with Someone

[Adriana Loui]

Say your unhappy at h ome and cant move out because u are only 15. You know a place where u will be much happier bu t your mother will never go for it. She makes ur life a living hell. So bad to where u cry yourself to sleep everynite and cant get over n e of it. Stressed out and getting headaches all the time because of the stress. You know someone u want to move with but how can u do that? i already got a few answers on this but i though maybe if i showed the way i wanted to move out a lil differently that the answer wud be diff. Is it possible to move with someone even though ur mom dont approve of it? The person is completely safe and is not older or a guy.

[Will88]

This is not a text message so proper punctuation would be nice. Wait untill your 16 and your mother can do nothing about it.

[wildwood]

Hi Adriana. Your mother makes your life a living hell??? I think it may be you who's upset yourself so much that you reach a point where you start to imagine all sorts of things. Only in extreme cases will a mother act to the detriment of their children. Ask yourself why your mother would want to stress you out. It may not seem like it at the time, but most parents' advice is based on many years of hard learned experience.

Can you ask your mother if she wants to sit down and talk with you about how you feel? Moving out of the parental home purely for the reason that you've turned 16 is not a good situation. If you talk with your mother (or parents) in a calm and adult way you may be surprised how much can be achieved.

Lots of luck.

[squiperly]

Hi Adriana sorry to hear you're not happy. How long til you're 16? If it's only a short time maybe you could try to stick it out, and you'd have more legal rights and would be able to get a job to support yourself etc. Maybe your mother doesn't realise how bad you feel? Could you try sitting down with her over a cup of tea or something and try to explain calmly how you feel? Or is there someone at school? A teacher, nurse or counsellor maybe? Good luck, it will get better in the end.

[MrsJo49155]

If the person is not older how do you both propose paying for somewhere to live, food, heating etc? Dont you think life would be even more stressful if you didnt have all the comforts that come with a free home to live in? Dont wish to sound harsh but I believe that at 15 years old you are very young to be thinking about going it alone.

[Noweia]

I've been in the same situation. Wildwood's answer is good.