For Everyone...

[masma]

... who have been so kind to me over the last 7 months and those who have given me support over the years. We scattered our son's ashes last Friday, he loved the river Thames so that's where we took him. We stayed in Hurley for a few days with family, found a lovely secluded spot and 'did the deed'. I'd been dreading it but it was wonderful; we said our goodbyes and now feel that he is, at last, at rest. Thank you to everyone (especially anneasquith) for their kind words during this dreadful time. xxx

[wolf63]

It has been a very difficult time for you and your husband x

Look after yourselves :-)

[jackthehat]

Wishing you and your family well for the future, masma.
Now you feel that your son is finally at rest, I hope that you find the strength and grace to face life with a smile.
xxx

[Mamyalynne]

So glad you found some solace and peace in that act Masma- so difficult for you and you have shown such love and courage too.

Take care.x

[ethandron]

masma, I know Hurley extremely well, it's a most beautiful, peaceful part of the country and the Thames there drifts gently along, what a lovely place to say your final goodbye to your boy.
I will think of you and him every time I wander down there... x

[jourdain2]

Now you have done the last loving thing you can for him and know he is at rest. It is time for you to be at peace, too, and begin to heal yourselves. xx

[mallyh]

thinking of you and your family .xx

[murraymints]

masma..I send you hugs...xx ..never easy but you have now ticked a box...thinking of you at this time....

[murraymints]

..and be proud of his gift of life to others..xx

[Butterbun]

Hugs masma, just hugs.xx

[Tilly2]

Now you can move on, Masma. Remember him with a smile. x

[lady-janine]

masma I am so glad that you now think your son is truly at rest. hopefully this enable you to feel more at peace and eventually just remember the best times. thinking you and your family. xx

[RetroChic2]

very sorry for your loss Masma I cannot begin to imagine how it must be to lose a son.

[DTCwordfan]

Memories always, masma, and he will, no doubt, want you to move on. xx

[marval]

You have got that difficult task over, now you must look after yourselves.

[Lie-in King]

My very best wishes to you & your family, masma x

[choux]

Dear masma, you have your closure and with it some peace at last. I understand how you found the occasion 'wonderful'. I send you my very best wishes. Just take things easy now and enjoy some cherished memories x

[mrs.chappie]

I'd like to add my good wishes too, Masma. Hope you will accept a cyber hug. (((((HUG)))))

[anneasquith]

Oh my it's masma :') I thought you would get some comfort from the last thing you could do for "" your boy" all those years of standing up for him never deserting him when those around you advised you otherwise. Then in the end he didn't let you down ( completely sober) when he had his tragic accident. We shouldn't be burying our children, its against nature and too devestating to even think about,but here you are masma survived but truly a different person, who as always is proud of your son . I hope your grandson is thriving and you and hubby keep well. Take care Anne x

[Old_Geezer]

Glad you are making progress. Getting past milestones tends to help.

[Togo]

masma I can recall you post at the beginning of the year when you lost you son, and can only imagine how sad and stressful the last few months have been. I am so glad that you were able once again to summon the fortitude that you have shown over the years, in your support for your son, to give yourself the strength to come to a point of closure. I do so hope that the coming years are kinder to you and your family, you deserve it.