Help please from all grandmothers of girls..........................

[lilacben]

I just do not know what to do. One of my grandaughters are 15 next month. She suffers from ADHD , Has problems at home, step father she doesnt get on with although he has been there for the past 13 years. 2 younger sisters and a brother. Trouble at school. She has a friend who is is living with aunty as trouble with real mother. I found out that this girl took my granddaughter to a party on saturday and my granddaughter got drunk after an hour and half. She had to be put to bed. They was staying there for night. She phoned last night and asked if her grandad could pick her up from friends as she felt ill and drop her off near home. She has always confided in us as she cannot talk to her mum. I do not want to push her away by telling her mum otherwise she will have no one to turn to. But feel I must do something as anything could have happened to her. What would you do or have you done in this situation.?. Many thanks xx

[sinderella]

sounds like normal behaviour of a 15 year old to me.i think you will find the friend never took her,she went of her on accord.couldnt handle her drink.felt crap,
talk to her.listen to her.give her your opinion.dont grass her up.

[AliceTickband]

totally agree with ^^^^^

[lilacben]

Thankyou for your replies. sinderella..very true what you said. I havent said anything to her mum but will have a chat to granddaughter to tell her my worries about it. xx