What to do about it ?

[sarthak876]

HI,uhmmm I am a 20 yr old guy and this is most important year of my life, I am an udergradute and preparing for entrance for masters in physics,the problem is I am noe able to study because my gf is always on my mind,she is studying in my college only,here holidays going on we cann't meet as parents doesn't let her go outside much. She can'nt attend my call as anyone and everyone is arround her everytime, her two brothers(twins) born last year so there is a lot of work to do for. Many times she caught talking to me and i really don't want to loose whatever i am getting,not her sweet voice not her soothing words,that why i doesn't call her much neither she pick it up as it would result in that her parents take her cell away from her.
we have done all the things except insertion we both are still virgin,but her aroma I just want to smell it feel it everyday but cannt. We use to phone sex really hot one but cannt now as she is not able to even talk to me. All these thing making my time worse, I know this golden time will never come back again when I making my future but cannt help myself ! pls help me

[Old_Geezer]

I can suggest you make a conscious decision to split your time between pining for your girl and dong something more productive. It's easier once in the habit. Determination works, and willpower is helpful. If girl thoughts intrude on study time then acknowledge the thought and then move on to what you should be doing not remain moping over thoughts you will 'beat yourself up for' later. And reap the reward.

[Tilly2]

Take regular cold showers.