what to do if you get a number.....

[top_driver]

a question i'm sure a lot wonder about,,

you go to nightclub,, etc.. you meet someone and really hit it off, at the end of the night you manage to get a number..

what is the perfect thing to say,, and or what not to say,,, with the idea you probably want to meet up with them again

[xxconfused2010xx]

i would say something along the lines of.. hey guess who? nice to meet you the other night.. hopefully we can meet again soon,you having a good week?

just make good conversation!!

[top_driver]

should give that a try..

say if they don't remember fully,, would that make it a lost cause

[ciaraciara]

If she still kind- of remembers you then that's something to go on...if you really hit it off though she probably remembers you:)

[top_driver]

hopefully the next opportunity i get,, wid a bit of luck

[sherminator]

NO! never ever ask to meet up in the first text you send!!!
try calling her something funny - hey dancing girl etc then make a joke that you can relate back to the night (if she was drunk and got a few people chatting her up she might struggle to remember who you are!)
then ask a question something silly and lighthearted.. Never ask to meet again it comes off as desperate and you hardly know each other yet so wait till there is a bit more comfort then ask.

[sherminator]

also when you give her a nickname make sure it relates to her! hope that was obvious! and even better if you can relate it to something you both did!
eg i met this girl and we had these ridiculous cocktails so i called her tom cruise!
and when i said never ask to meet again i meant in first text! (I need to proof read more!)

[top_driver]

alrite, kul, thanks i'll keep all that in mind, i'll prob copy and paste that

[sherminator]

do let us all know what she texts back!!!

We're in this together now!

[top_driver]

ah kul, thanks

well by the time i texted the latest one back, she was with someone,, ooops 2nd time within 2 months dats happened

[sherminator]

Oh well! Lemme know for next time and I'll try get you a better result hahaha