Would you send a Christmas card to your ex
a newly finished relationship btw
esther-ami Fri 14/11/08 00:27
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if he dumped me then no i would not
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yup, he dumped me, but in his "dumping email" he said, keep me on your Chirstmas card list"
He was being serious
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Depends ifu split on good terms or not?
If you did and are still friends then i dont see a problem at all.
Its really down to the individual, and depends if theres any prospect of or wish for a reconcilliation too.
Many factors to consider really , but id recommend alwssy staying friendly with your ex.
After all they were good enough once , so why not be nice even if youve split ?
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lol! What a bloody cheek! Does he want a Mars bar with that??
Don't send anything. You broke up for a reason. What would it achieve anyway, apart from making him feel better about dumping you?
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he has never been able to actually "end the relationship" by telling me face to face. But in the latest, he said, the keep me on the christmas card list..
I know he will send me a card. But in honesty, I cant be arsed to play his game and send one back.
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Doesnt pay to be bitter.
Im sure you know what you want to do , and to me it sounds like you wanna send a card.
So go with your instinct and what will makie you happy.
Dont follow anyones advice if it conflicts with your feelings
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max, thanks for that, we broke up because of him. He can send me his card. But me not sending one back. Will that irritate him? or are men and women so diffferent, he wont give a toss.
So by not sending him a card back. Will it wiind him up?
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Send him an e-mail, wishing him a crap Xmas.
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I do and I dont want to send a card. Sending cards, to me, means you care about someone.
he will send me a card, full of sentiment, (as he has done it before) but I want to ignore it. But the nice Christmassy side thinks, oh, go on send one back.
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There's no point trying to wind him up. If you don't send him a card, it'll show that you don't care one way or another what he might think.
He's only trying to make himself feel better. Sounds very childish.
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I could do that trt, but deleted his email address lol
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spot on there max.
will save a stamp and send a card to someone else who cares
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In answer o your question
Yes i would , as i said i think its better not to have bad feelings.
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Send one to me esther, I would appreciate it : - )
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but leggy, if you had spoken to this person on a saturday night, and he had been ok, but then gone to you email account on the mon to find, he had taken the time lol, to email you that he "was stuck in his ways" etc etc (yawn)
But ended it "we should be best friends") oh and keep me on your chistmas card list
Would you not think, what a pr*ck, he had to email it all, but couldnt say it to me on the phone?
And then had the nerve to more or less say "send me a f*cking christmas card!
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trt, will gladly send you a card :-)
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LOL legend is a pr!ck can tell that from his post
In Cyberland n0-one can hear you laugh............
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come on now
no fighting on my post!
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BABybow can tell nothing from my post.
Esther sorry about this
i put an honest answeer
and id still say theres no harm done by sending a card if you want to.
Ignore babybw , i know her and shes got problems , i wont get inviolved in an arguement with her on your thread.
Do as you really wanna esther and at the end of the day its only a card.
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