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Ive been dating this guy for awhile now and we are very serious and i know he feels the same and all that good stuff but im always worring. like does helike other girls, is he getting sick of me, am i like a chore to him, like i wanna be the best for him and i wanna spice up our relationship again and play arround like we use to all the time and stop finding the worst in eachother. how can i turn this around?

SarahWalker Mon 27/10/08 02:13

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happyone2
Mon 27/10/08
09:18

Sometimes it really does help to talk about your issues of self esteem with a counsellor, someone who is totally impartial, who may be able to get you to understand why you feel so insecure.

When you understand why you are half the way to being about to deal with it and then you will relax and turn it around !!!

good luck

RoaldoM
Mon 27/10/08
12:00

I would recommend doing a bungee jump together. This is a tried and tested way to cement a relationship. Many octogenarian couples swear by it.

Mrs Maud Oppenhiemer, Kansas:
If me an my ole man haddna done that bungee jump back in 47 there's no way we'd be together today

bemore
Sun 02/11/08
19:23

If you worry about it you will in due time do things that may damage your relationship.

If you think he is cheating you may ask questions like "What took you so long"
"Where have you been"
"Who was that person you were talking to"

Now think of your partner asking these questions to you when you have done nothing wrong??? How would it make you feel. Yes you may ask these questions subltley but soon they will begin to wonder why the second degree all the time???

I do also think you need to go and see a counsellor. They are the most wonderfull impartial people and they will give you a refreshing look on what you are doing.

Good luck anyway.

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