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Would You Date A Guy With Female Flatmate ?

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locitane | 23:47 Fri 30th Oct 2015 | Relationships & Dating
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Hi,

I have been dating a guy for 3 months. We had our ups and downs because of our issues, but we like each other.

His living situation has changed and he found a female flatmate. I am not being comfortable with that idea, because I am jealous of him sharing cooking, because I know he is looking for friendly person who will socialize so he can feel like home, not just being closed in the room...which i understand .

It is insecure, jealous if you want to. At the end of the day It may not be an issue at all, but I addressed to him that I am not very comfortable with current situation. He is still looking for one more flatmate, and we do not know yet if it will turn out to be a boy or a girl.

Would you be , if you are just being dating for 3 months ?

I guess if you have a properly established relationship, it may be more relaxed, or if there is a female flatmate from the beginning...But I wonder whether I do trust him or not. I know girls love him and he has lot of female friends, and I am not sure if this is where my concern is coming from or its me.

I appreciate your opinions...
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For me I would have to look at how they behave with each other and how comfortable they are with each other.
I am a very jealous person, so this I must say would bother me.
Are you still dating the cold turkey man?
scorpiojo, what cold turkey man? Am I missing something here??

Is he the never been married 43 year old, seems to fit the timeline given?

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I don't think it would bother me.
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yes he has been very sweet since ...we are both doing our best, and it has been very good for a while
You mean the last 18 days or so?!
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yes
I think I am going to bed!!!!!!!
So why don't you trust him?
Does it matter if the new flatmate is male or female. Clearly he needs the money if a third person is needed to share the costs


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because i have trust issues...
Maybe you should work on that. Jealousy drives people away.
So why can't "one more flatmate" be you - or am I missing something.
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I do..it is just not happening over night...
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It could...but I am not feeling ready to live with him.
Where are you from.I assume you are not English
Canary - after 3 months and already been experiencing relationship problems. Bad idea...
Fair point ummmm.

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