Need some advice about sex

[dollypins]

Hi. I have a bit of an embarrassing question. When you ladies have sex do you tighten your pelvic floor muscle when you are having sex? i seem to forget to do this and worry incase my boyfriend doesn't enjoy it. He hasn't grumbled but should you tighten your muscle at all times? thanks

[DTCwordfan]

silly gal....it helps you practice and tighten those kegels up.

And have some fun at the same time, not withstanding the laundry bill......

[4getmenot]

Ok I will be serious now. If he makes you orgasm just before or during penetration then your muscles on your vaginal wall will be contracting anyway.

[ummmm]

In Thailand...a lady sucked up a ping pong...then sucked up some water...pushed out the ping pong...then emptied the water into a glass. That muscle skill !!

[missprim]

DT what on earth is a kegel have you just made that up?

[lcg]

oops! handbags are out! your questions are fairly silly, dear. i mean...have you actually googled anything before coming on here and asking questions? and why can't you ask your mother? if you spoke to her a little more, you might not have turned out as daft. i have conversations about sex, pleasure and all things naughty with my 18 yr old son - how else is he going to learn? it's never been a taboo subject in my house - and he's certainly never asked a question as stupid as yours, either.

you're right in saying this is a q&a site - you asked and i answered. don't throw all your toys out the pram if you don't like it. and why concentrate on my answer? plenty of others have taken the p!ss - you're a tad too sensitive and imho should stop thinking so much. you'll do yourself (and others) less damage!

[craft1948]

I'd be no good 'cos when I do my pelvic floor exercises I always pull a funny face :-(

[mrs_overall]

ummmm, and then she opened a bottle of Coke..and smoked a ciggie

[NOX]

Okay you want a serious answer, from a man's perspective this is it. I like women who are natural and enjoy what's going on without feeling the need to put on a floor show of how amazing they are cos they onec read some flaming article in woman's which told her she had to do all osrts of things at all sorts of times in order to make sure her partner enjoyed sex. Just enjoy your partner, if you are really into him, he'll be really into you ( excuse the pun).

[ummmm]

It might have been coke she used instead of water. Emptied that into the glass, drank it with her ciggie.

[dollypins]

Thank you NOX, you've answered my question sensibly and given me a truthful answer. That's too much to ask from some. Thanks x

[ummmm]

Sensible answers - The way I look at it....if you can feel him, he can feel you..

[4getmenot]

lcg I would never be able to talk to my mum about things like this and I'm in my 30's.

[DTCwordfan]

excuse the graphic diagrams here, but for missprim's benefit

http://bladder-treatm...y-should-i-do-kegels/

though generally it is considered more exercises for the basal muscles down there

[annadomino]

As long as he doesn't complain it's like waving a stick in the Albert Hall, don't fret.

[DTCwordfan]

ummm -and the send the dart at the balloon trick, as well as the razor blades up there, coming out one by one...the old Viet Cong trick to take out GI Joe......

[missprim]

Perhaps you need to ask the one you're with if he likes it more when you pull in your muscles?

[ummmm]

Never heard of that one DT...that must have been before H&S became popular...

[DTCwordfan]

have seen it, Firecat Club in the PatPong area in Bangkok, Thai mate of mine married the landowner's daughter of thewhole area......quite an illuminating trip as we (all) went hi and low end of the market, so to speak.

And I can assure you, look and no touch pour moi (well you know what I mean!).

[annadomino]

Girls, shall we let them know?
How important the p/muscles are?
And that we don't actually need them for an outcome?

[missprim]

I've never heard the word before either. ummmm what's H&S or shouldn't I ask?