Taking care of one's appearance to retain the spark in a relationship

[dave50]

I sometimes see couples where one of them obviously takes care of themselves by dressing smart and keeping slim and active but their partner is overweight and seems not to be bothered what they look like. Does anyone think that the ones who aren't bothered are risking their partner straying? If they cant be bothered to make an effort for their other half then surely they are asking for trouble. Yes I know it shouldnt matter etc but it does and we like to see our partners make an effort, surely it shows they care.

[bloaterbum]

Ye Itotally agree Icall it the "we have arrived" syndrome where pride goes out the window.Familiarity breeds..... etc