that no matter what you have done. There is that empty gap there and you know it will never be filled?
goodbyegirl Thurs 20/11/08 01:38
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I could see a dentist to sort it!
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No. I've been lucky enough to find what I was looking for and more.
Are you missing something hun? Your posts seem a bit morose. x
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don't be cryptic goodbyegirl, spit it out.
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We all have those empty gaps that need filling...well-I know I do!!!
think about it every day unfortunately......
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Well EAT the blasted pies then pasta, instead of making them for everyone else!! Bound to fill the gap.......
Bless.
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Yeah, I had everything that could have possibly made someone happy and then lost it all through my own fault, but life goes on and if you never know what's around the corner so cheer up unless it's something truly terrible in which case you need to look at damage limitation and deal with things the best you can.
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hello noknob, I'm alright, how's it going?
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Mwhahaha! Sorry guys - great greeting!
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great ta , did you watch us make the krauts sour?
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Ohhh yeah, music to my ears so to speak:)
Not that I have anything against most Germans, just the one, but great that he's an avid football fan lol
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I did until I decided to accept myself no matter what happens in my life. It's does work I feel so much better now
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There may be times where I think if only I;d done this or that but then I snap out of it and I think compared to some I am so lucky
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Nope, never, its a case of dustin yourself down and starting again. Good luck
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Petal there are folk out there who dont even realise they have failed and carry on oblivious.
The fact that you feel like a failure gives you a starting point to move on from feeling a failure and start to think more positively and build something new.
Dont concentrate on where you want to get to just concentrate on starting heading towards it
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concentrate on the positive things in ur life rather than negative things. Dont focus on what could have been or what you have lost as it cant be changed now amd whats done is done. I bet for as many negative things u can find about ur life there are as many good things you can say 4 yourself. These can be, how you are as a person, are u a good listener? do u have friends and family who care 4 u? are u a kind person? have you alot to give and do in future? all these things pointaway from u being a failure. Dont let any one tell u otherwise as they are just playing on their own insecurities and trying to make u feel bad-try and turn negative thoughts about urself-esp guilty ones into thoughts more kind about urself-u have to love and learn to like yourself b4 u can move on from this feeling. If u find this hard spk to GP about getting some CBT
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I think the most important thing is to know we are all here for a purpose and that we are all important we may note feel like it but we are. for instance i am replying to your post becouse the feelings you have most people have felt at some time in there lives they may not admit. so be rest assured what you are feeling is normal and as a fellow human being i feel your pain.so give yourself a break and don't feel so bad your normal and these feelings will pass.
And remember there are people who care!!!!!
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oh goodbye girl dont be so hard on your self ur not a failure ! u will learn from this things will get better .xx
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You need to identify what's causing that empty gap and move towards finding ways to fill it, or alleviate it.
Most of us have felt that way at some point in our lives, it's hard when your feeling down to look for the positive.
Why don't you try reciting some positive affirmations, to help build up a more positive way of thinking. Take a look at the link below.
http://www.vitalaffirmations.com/
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Here are my thoughts. Someone told me about a proverb.....God says you can trade your troubles for any one you choose, let me know. The blok looked thru many, could find noone whose troubles they would trade for.
The other thing: All things shall come to pass; and-- tragedies can sometimes be blessings--sometimes many many years later it takes to realize. The items mentioned, I often reflect back on, they do help me save my sanity and insecurities.
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