quick hug please

[Mamyalynne]

You always said i could ask, just feeling a bit vulnerable, need a hug afore bed. Goodnight to all.
Mamya xxx

[Ice.Maiden]

What's the matter hun? Still people here if you want to have a good old moan. Here's a hug anyway >><< xx

[Mamyalynne]

well is six weeks since i lost my beloved husband and im getting there but sometimetimes get stuck, 34 years is a long time to bury. Hug gratefully received thankyou xx
Mamya

[pinktwink]

big hugs mamya


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hope you are feeling brighter soon

[Mamyalynne]

Thankyou Pink I suppose there are going to be peaks and troughs will have to carry on as he would have wanted
x mamya

[Ice.Maiden]

I know it must be terrible for you sweetie, and I guess that however many people tell you that time'll heal - which it will - you're still going to miss your husband very much. I hope you have a good family and friends round you, as they can help a lot. One morning, when the time's right, you'll wake up with a smile on your face, because that'll be the start of the rest of your life, and I'm sure that your husband'd want you to make the most of it. xxx

[pastafreak]

mamya...you HAVE to give yourself loads of time.....it isn't going to be easy but remember there are always people who are there to listen..whether here or in your privete life. Besides-he is still with you...standing by your side and guiding you. A very big hug to you....((((((((HUG))))))))

[Mamyalynne]

True both Pasta and Ice he would be cross as he was ready to travel, will perk up no doubt. Feel better already for sharing.
Mamya xx

[Mamyalynne]

awww bez fifty years bless em , don hear that much now do you, lok after her. take care.
xxx

[pinktwink]

don't be too hard on youself either allow yourself be sad and miss him at times but know he will always be in your heart.In times of sadness try to remember alll those good times and the years yee had together and smile at them. Know that he is no longer in pain. xx

[ELVIS68]

Sh!t ....just read this thread and got a lump in my throat

Bless ya mamyalynne

[terambulan]

Aaaah mamyalynne....hugs from me. Gets worse before it gets better but never seems to leave you. Mine was 40y just 15m ago...still painful, alas. Kids keep me going and ofcourse the Abers.

[Ice.Maiden]

As pasta said, I have no doubt that your husband's watching over you.
Whenever you feel a bit weepy - let it out, hun, and then come on and chat to us. xxx

[Mamyalynne]

feel guilty now its easy to forget how many other people are going through it, i will cope because i have to, thankyou all so much again.
sorry have stopped dishing out stars but you are all great.
mamya xx

[Ice.Maiden]

I'm sure there are some dreadful crosses to bear, if we but knew of them, but that doesn't help our own sadness, does it? You carry on mamya. I'm sure you have a lot of friends on here, if only in cyber land.

[ELVIS68]

Can I just say rather than post a seperate thread

( I hate posting threads)

This just goes to show how caring and warm people are on here, thoughts and all with you mamyalynne

and cuddles xx

[Mamyalynne]

I jave never had negative feedback always support and help yea Elvis you are right

[pinktwink]

no need to feel guilty whist others have experienced loss each experience is unique and yours is very recent. It just means we can understand your pain more having lost a loved one ourselves. It does get easier with time and i am sure you are sick of hearing that but it will ease. Hope your grandson is giving you some joy xx