Why must men in general change throughout their life. I don't and won't... if people don't like me for what I am, tough, they can find someone they do like.
who says they have to change? mr kicker is just as stubborn and lazy as when i met him 20 years ago! it's me that's changed - i no longer scream and shout at him (or throw stuff) when he doesn't do housework and stuff...i just get on with it myself and think evil thoughts.