If a man must change throughout his life, what must it be? How? And Why?

[nicelad!]

If I may ask the women to answer the question first and then the men to respond. This will be interesting!!!

[shoota]

If we all waited for wimmin to do summat fust..........

[gness]

Shoota. I don`t know why that made me laugh so much. Just created a strange image in my rather odd mind.

[islasmum]

I don't think that you should go into a relationship hoping for your partner to change - the chances are they won't. I fell in love with my OH for what he is, not what I could change about him, and hopefully he feels the same way about me.