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P'raps he wants to know if you've had relationships since your divorce.
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What do you think? Not exactly his business unless he does date you.
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He's being nosey!
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He might not be "getting at" anything - but just making conversation. Its rather like asking how long were you married or how long have you been on your own or why did you split up?
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He's probably trying to find out if you're the type that sleeps around.
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Yes, I agree with missprim on this one, but who would admit to sleeping around?
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that's not really a very promising first topic of conversation, is it? I'm inclined to agree with tenrec - he's nosey. That's the sort of thing you might discuss on a tenth date, but perhaps not even then
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Yes, I agree with missprim on this one, but who would admit to sleeping around?
Why not if you have? What anyone does before they embark on a relationship has nothing to do with the current partner.
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He's just checking if the vultures have been around.
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Sounds to me as if he wants to know if you are up for it. And if you aren't cut him off right away.
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It's a question of assessing the risk of STDs, but not that "sensitive"
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Whatever his motives, best avoided. Insensitive or rude or nosey or out for what he can get.
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I would reply oh uum let me see now! Um how about you and your relationships and see how forthcoming he is.
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Boo, >>Why not if you have? What anyone does before they embark on a relationship has nothing to do with the current partner.<<
I disagree, I would not want a relationship with the local bike, I would like to know that the woman I was dating had some morals. I wouldn't be quite as blunt as to ask outright like that though.
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What happened before you met the person you're currently with is not important IMO (as long as they haven't got an STI, and they're loyal to you).
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Insecurity. Fear that if you've had lot's of partners you can't be trusted.
I've never been asked this question.
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Nor have I, nor have I asked it of anyone.
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The thought of sleeping with a woman that has been sleeping around really turns my stomach!! Gross.
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I know what you mean, ratter, but how many (over a period of time) would be acceptable? (I don't want you to give a number, but in a lifetime, surely some men and women might have had quite a few partners?)
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Me and OH have known each other a long time so we have an idea.
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